i have always believed that having differences is the magic ingredient to a a complementary relationship where each person brings something special to challenge the other person. but how different can those differences be before it is just too far out of sync?
opposites do attract. and for a brief moment, it is exciting and refreshing to be with someone so different from yourself. someone who has a different perspective that is not exactly like yours...made life choices that may confuse you, yet at the same time intrigue you and make you want to learn more...
through understanding differences comes an appreciation of the other person. but how long can appreciation of a different life last? when it comes down to it, people's life choices are a reflection of their values....and if those values are not in sync, is there really any potential for it to last forever? and what differences are good and what differences are deal breakers?
the allure fades and reality sets in: we are creatures drawn to what is familiar. we look for friends and partners who are similar to ourselves
similarity is understanding. understanding is connection. and true connection is lasting.
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