lack of posts = good sign or red flag?

things are going seemingly well and calm in my dating life, and it makes me nervous that i am missing something here.

ive been dating someone casually for about a month, and we just talked a few days ago about how we are not seeing other people. just came up...not a big weird "define the relationship" conversation, but just a normal thing that came up in conversation.

for once, i can just hang out with a guy without feeling this need to maintain the momentum or else he will just get closer to someone else, since he is not seeing anyone else. i also dont have to make up stories in my head about when we dont hang out because i know that he is not hooching around trying to find a new girl.

for once, i feel calm and i feel no pressure that this has to be some serious relationship, but it can go at its own pace, whatever that pace may be. still casual, but exclusive. we dont have to know 'where it is going' but just that there is an 'it' called mutual respect and getting to know each other, with minimal expectations beyond that.

does this exist?! to me, it sounds like a good thing, but then again, in all my years of dating, i have never experienced this.... red flag????